Live MasterclassWednesday 6 May

Release the weight, keep the connection

The Understanding Trap.

Why high-achieving women over-carry emotionally —and how to stop without losing connection.

When

Wednesday 6 May
12:00 noon AEST (Sydney) · 90 minutes

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This is a live event

Wednesday 6 May
twelve noon, Sydney time.

Ninety minutes, live on Zoom. You and Lissy in real time — with space for your questions and the parts of the work you've never been able to find words for.

Replay available for thirty days if life gets in the way.

You're not confused.

You're highly aware.

You read the room.

You understand people deeply.

You see context others miss.

And that's exactly why you override your own standards.

You explain behaviour instead of addressing it.

You hold space instead of holding boundaries.

You replay conversations instead of trusting yourself.

This is the Understanding Trap.
Where emotional intelligence becomes over-responsibility.

The Cost

  • — Mental exhaustion
  • — Resentment, followed by guilt
  • — Second-guessing yourself after every interaction
  • — Carrying emotional weight that isn't yours

The Shift

Three corrections that change everything.

Understanding someone

excusing them

Empathy

responsibility

Boundaries don't make you less connected.

They make your connection self-respecting.

What You'll Walk Away With

Ninety minutes that change the way you carry every room.

This isn't an information dump. It's a guided unhooking from a pattern most high-EQ women have lived inside their whole adult lives — in real time, with real language, with real frameworks you can begin using the moment you log off.

01

A name for what you've been doing

You'll walk in carrying it silently. You'll walk out with words for it — and the relief of finally being able to point at the pattern instead of living inside it.

02

The full S.A.F.E. Method™ framework

Separate. Allow. Fortify. Empower. The four-step inner practice you'll use in real time — in the conversations that matter, in the rooms that drain you, in the moments you usually disappear.

03

Real language, not theory

Word-for-word phrasing for the boundaries that have lived in your head for years. So you stop over-explaining, stop softening, and stop replaying conversations afterwards.

04

A nervous-system reset

You'll learn how to let people have their own reactions — without managing, fixing, or absorbing. The version of you that walks out of this masterclass leads from a quieter, steadier place.

05

A permanent inner shift, not a strategy

This is identity-level work disguised as a 90-minute class. Once it lands, it doesn't unland. You can't see this pattern and keep performing it.

06

Replay access, just in case

Show up live (it's the best way) — but if life happens, the replay is yours for thirty days, so you can return to the moments that struck you most.

In the 90 Minutes

You'll learn how to

  • Stop over-functioning emotionally
  • Hold boundaries without over-explaining
  • Let people have their reactions without managing them
  • Trust your standards in real time
  • End the cycle of replaying conversations

You'll leave with a clear framework

The S.A.F.E. Method.

S

See clearly

A

Allow discomfort

F

Firm boundary

E

Exit the role

Is this for you?

This is for you if —

You're the "emotionally intelligent one" in every room

You feel responsible for how others feel

You struggle to hold boundaries without guilt

You want to feel calm, clear, and self-respecting in relationships

You don't need less empathy.
You need boundaries that protect it.

Two Ways In

Choose the option that suits you.

Both options are available at checkout. Same masterclass. Same framework. Same permanent shift.

Option One · Pay In Full

$110

AUD · ONE-TIME

The cleanest path. Pay once, secure your spot, done. For the woman who's already chosen and just wants to make it final.

Pay $110 Upfront

Option Two · Payment Plan

5 × $25

AUD · BILLED FORTNIGHTLY

For the woman who wants the work, in a way that's gentle on her cash flow. $25 fortnightly across five payments. Same access, same date, same masterclass.

Choose The Payment Plan

Both buttons go to the same Stripe checkout, where you'll see both options side by side. Choose the one that's right for you there.

Lissy Katriona, in a flowing tulle skirt and lavender coat in a fern-lined bushland path

Self-Leadership Advisor & Creator of The S.A.F.E. Method

Sixteen years in the room with the people who hold everyone else.

For the past sixteen years, I've coached people from all walks of life — including visionaries and high-achieving women (and men!) navigating complex, high-responsibility lives. Over time, I saw a pattern: those with the most emotional intelligence were often the ones carrying the most. Not because they didn't know themselves — but because they weren't fully honouring the truth of what they felt.

My work is about changing that. About helping you trust your own inner knowing, hold your standards, and give yourself permission to live your life — and your relationships — in a way that actually fulfils you. With depth. With clarity. And with responsibility.

I invite you to choose YOU.

— Lissy x

Final Truth

Stop understanding everyone else —
and start including yourself in that understanding.

Wednesday 6 May · 12:00 noon AEST (Sydney) · 90 minutes

$110 AUD upfront, or 5 × $25 fortnightly · Live online masterclass

I'm Ready To Stop Abandoning Myself